Sunday, September 25, 2005
Women: Bisexual, Bi-Curious, Bi-what-are-you?
Guys and Gals, Read this and the Ladies should then take my New Poll in the right-hand sidebar!
by Danni, the Bisexual Female 1/2 of Danni654
P.S. this is all very tongue-in-cheek, or should I say "tongue-in-pussy", and in no way meant to judge you or others! It's just the facts-of-life! And, it's all good! LOL
Let's set the record straight (aka str8) on Female Bisexuality (aka bi-). I firmly believe that all women are bi-sexual, and I do mean ALL women! Some women just choose to (a) not admit it or (b) not recognize it whether due to societal mores, their upbringing, thier inhibitions, whatever. I've met so many different women since entering the Lifestyle, and each one is unique in their own special way. And, oddly enough, despite the limitations of "sexual preference" labels on most sites such as AFF, SLS, etc., there are as many different levels of Bisexuality in the women we meet.
These are my definitions of Female Bisexuality. Which one are you? 'Fess up! (Ladies, please take the Poll in the right-hand sidebar!)
A woman who fucks men but also...
Bi-Sexual: ...is a true bi-sexual woman in the purest form who carries on relationships with one or more men and one or more women, either exclusively or concurrently. (Remember Anne Heche, who was Ellen DeGeneres' g/f and then left her to marry a man?)
Bi-Sexual Swinger (Hard Swap): ...is attracted to and actively seeks out and enjoys other women for sexual pleasure to include her male 1/2, both giving and receiving, including, but not limited to, oral sex, penetration with fingers, toys, etc. Bottom line, she fucks guys AND girls AND together.....this is ME (especially if I get to fuck them at the same time and in groups)! Love it or leave it! I get to fuck 100% of the people in the room. And, my guy gets to fuck the female portion of the room.
Bi-Sexual Swinger (Soft Swap): ...same as Bi-Sexual Swinger (Hard Swap) except... Bottom line, she fucks girls and "plays" with guys. Some women at this level will play with girls alone or allow her male 1/2 to watch and/or participate in some way, shape, or form, but no intercourse with another male.
Bi-Sexual, Girls Only: ...same as Bi-Sexual Swinger (Soft Swap) except... Women at this level will play with girls alone or allow her male 1/2 to watch, but not participate.
Bi-Curious: ...is attracted to, "curious" about and may seek out and enjoy other women for sexual pleasure, both giving and receiving, including SOME, but not limited to, oral sex, penetration with fingers, toys, etc. Bottom line, she fucks guys and MAY fuck other girls. She may not always admit that she enjoys encounters with other women, but deep-down she does! These girls tend to require another girl at their own level OR a Bi-sexual girl who is aggressive, attractive (in their eyes), their male 1/2 is attracted to, they've had enough drinks and feeling sexy, whatever. I find most girls fall into this level and that this level has the widest swing (for lack of a better term) of varying degrees of girl's sexual appetites.
Bi-Selective: ...same as Bi-Curious except...is somewhat attracted to and selectively seeks out and may enjoy other women for sexual pleasure, especially receiving. Bottom line, she fucks guys AND may fuck other girls if all the stars are aligned in their proper order.
Bi-Social (aka Bi-Comfortable): ...same as Bi-Curious except... Bottom line, she fucks guys AND may fuck other girls (usually they fuck her!) in the right atmosphere. This girl only gets her bi- game on for parties or social situations and in any other circumstance would deny she had a bi- bone in her body.
Bi-Submissive: ...same as Bi-Curious except...is somewhat attracted to, yet does not seek out, other women for sexual pleasure, especially receiving. Bottom line, she fucks guys AND may fuck other girls (usually they fuck her!) in the right atmosphere. This girl lays back, spreads her legs and closes her eyes and "allows" another women to "do" her but generally does not reciprocate.
Bi-for Her Guy: ...is not really attracted to other women for sexual pleasure but does so solely to accommodate her guy, whether by his direct coersion or subtle innuendo. You know the type: the girl who tries to please her guy because he either makes her feel attractive or sexy only in the context of "I think it would be hot to see you with another girl" or "I need to fuck other women, so go get us one." Or, in some cases, this girl may be doing what she can to save her marriage/relationship, however misguided and falsethat assumption is! This is the bi-girl that I have the least respect for (sorry) because she really has no respect for herself. Thankfully, we've met very few girls like this and when we do, we run in the other direction...a couple who is totally guy-directed just turns me off.
Bi-when Drunk: ...is not really attracted to other women for sexual pleasure unless shit-faced with alcohol. The amount of drunkedness varies with the girl. Some girls need just a few drinks. I believe it has nothing to do with their alcohol tolerance but more on their true level of bisexuality and their personal beliefs. Huh? These girls really think bi- is "wrong" and the alcohol gives them an "excuse" for enjoying it. I can think of one girl in particular that I would have labeled Bi-Drunk. She enjoyed her first full girl-on-girl action with me and, damn, she ate a mean pussy, too! Who cared if she was drunk!
Bi-for Pay: ...is willing to have sex with other women for money. Kinda of a no-brainer, huh?
Bi-Bait and Switch (aka Bi-BS): ...may or may not be attracted to and actively seeks out other women for "sexual teasing", especially in a party setting but is only willing to receive sexual pleasure from another woman, not to give. This may include, but is not limited to, oral sex, penetration with fingers, toys, etc. Bottom line, she fucks guys AND allows girls to pleasure her.....this is similar to bait-and-switch advertising, whereby you think you've bought one thing but you really got something else altogether. This girl really "plays" with girls to allow her male 1/2 to watch and/or participate in some way, shape, or form. Bottom line, this girl has no intention of eating pussy, but she's happy to procure a girl for her guy to fuck and another guy for herself to fuck. (Luckily, we've only met one couple with a female who was Bi-BS.)
Bi-Pretender: ...is really not bi- at all, but can put on a good show for her male 1/2 to get him aroused. This girl only fucks guys but knows how to "work" the room, especially the girls, to get him going! She has no intention of playing with girls OR other guys.
Bi-but Guy-Focused: ...same as Bi-Pretender except... This girl only fucks guys and knows how to "work" the room, especially the girls, to get the guys going! She has no intention of playing with girls BUT definitely other guys. She may allow limited girl-on-girl contact when the party moves to the bedroom, but she is truly focused on fucking the guys.
Bi-Former Lesbian: ...is (or has been) a Lesbian and is very attracted to and actively seeks out and enjoys other women for sexual pleasure and would like to try men out, too, both giving and receiving. Bottom line, she fucks girls AND is interested in girls AND guys together. Our very first three-way was with a very special lady who falls in this category. Damn, we're glad she decided to try us out! We'd met and played with other BFLs but S (aka L) was the best ever.
and then there's...Men. You know "Men", will usually fuck anything, anytime at anyplace and only women. Ah, Men.
If you think I've missed a category, be sure to email me at firstname.lastname@example.org and I will amend my Poll to include your Bi-Category.
Posted by Danni of Danni and B at 5:36 PM